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are you confused by a guy who says
one thing, but does another?
If so, it's likely that you're constantly asking
yourself, "What is he thinking?!"
This can be a huge TRAP for you as a woman.
If you're thrown off and upset by the mixed
signals your boyfriend is sending you about how
attracted or committed he is to you, then ask
yourself one question:
What will it take to close this GAP IN
UNDERSTANDING between you and your man?
In my "Inside The Mind Of A Man" program I show
you what men are really thinking and going through
when they've done that predictably frustrating
thing of saying that they love you but they're not
acting like it anymore.
It's time you end your confusion by getting the
real tools and answers you need to create the kind
of relationship you want with a man.
Men seem to act like they could take it or leave
it in relationships. But if you know what a man is
really looking for and what drives him wild, it's
likely that you could experience that ongoing and
intense attraction and devotion from your man that
only a few women seem to have.
Go here now for my very best tips, insights and
secrets on how to know what a man is thinking,
what he wants, and how to inspire him to start
giving you the kind of love and affection you want
and deserve:
Are you having a hard time getting past a
recent break-up?
Maybe you were dating for a while and you
thought things were pretty amazing, but he wasn't
so sure.
Or maybe YOU were the one who decided it was
better to end things. But now you find yourself
wondering if that was really the right move,
because you're having trouble moving on.
Are you're still trying to figure out how to
get him back, or show him that you're really "the
one" for him?
You text him, or call him, and maybe agreed to
"still be friends" and hang out once in a while.
But nothing seems to make you feel better. In
fact, the more you talk to him or see him, the
WORSE you feel.
Still, you can't imagine not talking to him at
all because you still have some very intense
feelings that just aren't going away anytime soon.
In any case, you're feeling pretty "stuck"
right now, and you don't know what to do about it.
If that's true, then stick around and keep
reading, because in this email I'm going to give
you 3 powerful remedies for getting past a break-
up and getting your love life BACK ON TRACK.
These remedies will fast-track you through
feeling better and getting past all the confusion
of your break-up.
Take a few minutes to read and really THINK
about each step, and then commit to follow through
on each one.
You'll be amazed at how much better you'll
feel.
Here they are:
STEP #1: RECOGNIZE WHAT WASN'T WORKING FOR YOU
So let me ask you.
Are you spending a lot of time thinking about
all the ways you screwed up in your relationship
with your boyfriend, but all the ways he was
great?
Do you keep rehashing an argument, wondering if
things would have been better if you said or did
something different from the beginning with him,
feeling guilty or bad that things moved "too fast"
between you (and it scared him away)?
Do you daydream about all the ways he was
special, and how you'll never find anyone who
understands you quite the same way he did?
Romanticizing or re-hashing the past is a
pretty common thing many women do when they break
up with a man.
Big mistake.
Don't do this to yourself.
This is 100% sure to only make you feel MORE
AWFUL, not to mention that it keeps you from
focusing on what's most important to you right
now.
And that is learning how to get what you want
and how to have the kind of relationship you
deserve in the FUTURE.
When you focus on your ex too much, and you
spend your time "pining away" for a relationship,
you miss out on a very important lesson.
You stop seeing all the ways that the
relationship made life a ROLLER COASTER for you.
You don't realize all the ways he wasn't right
for you or made you feel less than your true self.
You don't learn what it is your really want and
need from a relationship in order to be fulfilled.
Let's face it, you were led down some very
negative emotional paths by this guy, weren't you?
So, instead of thinking only of the "good
times" and how much you miss him, consider all the
things he did and said that made you feel
insecure, anxious or frustrated - feelings that
one way or another probably contributed to the end
of the relationship.
What can you learn about yourself, love and men
from the things that drove you two apart, so that
you're sure to have a more intimate, loving and
evolved relationship next time around.
Don't repeat those same mistakes in your next
relationship.
If you're starting to realize now that even if
you love a man, you don't really UNDERSTAND what
it is that makes a relationship actually WORK and
last with one...
Or you don't understand what you're doing in
the relationship that's causing him to withdraw or
lose interest in you, you'll just keep bringing
those same issues into future relationships.
Then I want to show you:
-- What defines a "good", MATURE guy to begin
with, so you don't keep picking men who just
aren't ready for a real relationship in the first
place
-- What makes a man feel inspired to be completely
devoted to you from day 1, both emotionally and
sexually
-- What a man needs in order to feel that he's in
love with you and that a relationship is "working"
in his mind
STEP #2: STOP "LOSING YOURSELF" IN YOUR
RELATIONSHIPS
You probably gave up a lot to be with your guy.
You gave up time with your friends and family.
You gave up doing things you USED to love doing
- things like reading, exercising, going on hikes,
visiting art shows, whatever.
You gave it up in order to spend time with him.
You gave it up to make him feel comfortable.
You gave things up because the RELATIONSHIP
seemed important, and you wanted it to work.
Sure, I get it. Many women feel like they need
to give things up to keep a man happy and
attracted.
But if you're using that excuse to:
-Stay emotionally attached to him, because you
feel that you can't "get over him" easily since
you gave up so much
-Feel too depressed to go out with your friends or
get back to the things that used to make you feel
alive and happy
-Refuse to "get back out there" and date someone
new.
Then guess what you're doing?
Yep, that's right.
You're STILL giving up more of you and your
happiness for his sake. Even though he's out of
your life.
Have weeks, months or years gone by, and
you're still in the same "sacrificing" place,
putting your life on hold instead of realizing
your own needs?
Snap out of it!
You are actually continuing the very thing that
helped break your relationship apart, and made you
feel unhappy and unfulfilled.
In my "Relationship Turnaround" program, I
actually show you how to get out of your funk and
get BACK your true, feminine and empowered self so
you can start to feel whole and truly ALIVE again.
With the 6 powerful Tools I share in this
program, you'll learn how to get back the love,
passion and enjoyment out of love and life, and
stop the vicious cycle of getting into a
relationship, getting a man, and then LOSING
YOURSELF.
I consider this program a REQUIREMENT for
anyone who wants to have a truly loving and
"evolved" relationship that takes you and the
person you're with to better and better places in
your lives TOGETHER.
Stop the cycle of only finding that your
relationships are about you and your partner
turning on each other and breaking each other
down.
It's time you learned how to RECEIVE and to get
the true love and devotion you deserve from a man.
And YES, by you changing the way YOU go about
your relationship you can make this change happen
in the man you're with, or in the kind of man you
attract.
Don't wait for the right relationship to
"happen to you", when you have the power to make
it happen for yourself and feel 100% confident
about where your love and relationship is headed.
Let what you do from here forward in
relationships start giving back and feeding you
inside and out.
Try my "Relationship Turn-Around" program now
and use it free for an entire month. Then watch as
lasting change for the rest of your life in your
relationships happen right in front of you.
Get started right and get some free tips even
if you aren't sure whether you're ready right
here:
http://www.CatchHimKeepHim.com/RelationshipTurnAround
STEP #3: BE READY FOR LOVE WHEN IT FINDS YOU
When you end a relationship that felt like it
had a lot of "promise" and connection, it's hard
to believe you'll ever find love again, at least
in quite the same way.
You might even vow not to date again for a LONG
TIME, because you just don't want to get hurt
again.
It can feel pretty safe to live inside the
little "bubble" you make for yourself, just
working on your career, spending time with
friends, doing things that make you happy.
What do you need a man for anyway? (You think.)
You put yourself and your love life in a
"holding pattern" because you don't want to let
another man in or get close.
You don't want to be vulnerable. What's the
point, if all that's going to happen is that
you'll end up feeling more of the same, bad
feelings you're trying to get over now - right?
Actually, no.
I don't agree.
Because if you're honest with yourself, you'll
realize that you don't want to shut yourself off
from what can be the opportunity for an amazing,
life-long experience.
That one great guy you're meant to be with
could be out there right now. Unless you create
the "space" for him in your life, you won't be
ready for love when it finds you.
Ok, you may feel pretty in-control and safe
right now, but are you LIVING? If you're not
taking a risk, are you risking never feeling the
LOVE and connection that could transform your life
someday?
Nod your head right now if you feel even a
GLIMMER of truth in what I'm saying.
And here's another common thing I hear from
women who aren't ready to date again.
"There's no good men out there for me anyway.
The ones I'm attracted to aren't attracted to me.
Or they're taken."
I can see how you may feel that way if you're
not sure how you're going to attract the RIGHT
guy, or the type of guy you're into.
Plus, your recent experience with men has been,
well, less than great.
Like when a guy comes on strong at first, then
suddenly tells you he's "not ready" for anything
serious, or isn't "into" monogamy or commitment.
No wonder you'd rather stick a twig in your eye
than date again anytime soon.
Yeah, I get it.
Alright, but what if I told you that I can help
you learn exactly how to identify and ATTRACT the
right guy, and give you an "edge" that you've
never had before in dating?
Would it change the way you think and feel
about men if you knew exactly how to get a man
close and connected to you and KEEP him wanting
you and ONLY you, without games, manipulation or
"tricks" of any kind whatsoever?
You CAN experience the kind of LOVE you've
always wanted in your life, regardless of what
kinds of bad experiences you've had before.
In my "Natural & Lasting Attraction" program,
I'll show you how to make a man realize you're a
"catch" within the first few MINUTES of a
conversation.
You'll attract quality men because they will
"sense" that you are the type of woman they're
looking to have something special with.
You'll learn exactly what kinds of words and
behavior magnetically draw a man to you, and what
repels a man from EVER wanting anything past the
"physical" with you, so you can avoid making those
mistakes and losing a guy after getting intimate
with him.
Here's the truth about attraction: It's not
about being a great beauty, or about seducing a
man into having feelings for you.
Actually, it's about something deeper and more
long-lasting. And the best part is, that once a
man feels THIS level of attraction for you, almost
nothing can keep him away from wanting to be with
you.I consider this program a REQUIREMENT for
anyone who wants to have a truly loving and
"evolved" relationship that takes you and the
person you're with to better and better places in
your lives TOGETHER.
Stop the cycle of only finding that your
relationships are about you and your partner
turning on each other and breaking each other
down.
It's time you learned how to RECEIVE and to get
the true love and devotion you deserve from a man.
And YES, by you changing the way YOU go about
your relationship you can make this change happen
in the man you're with, or in the kind of man you
attract.
Don't wait for the right relationship to
"happen to you", when you have the power to make
it happen for yourself and feel 100% confident
about where your love and relationship is headed.
Let what you do from here forward in
relationships start giving back and feeding you
inside and out.
Try my "Relationship Turn-Around" program now
and use it free for an entire month. Then watch as
lasting change for the rest of your life in your
relationships happen right in front of you.
Get started right and get some free tips even
if you aren't sure whether you're ready right
STEP #3: BE READY FOR LOVE WHEN IT FINDS YOU
When you end a relationship that felt like it
had a lot of "promise" and connection, it's hard
to believe you'll ever find love again, at least
in quite the same way.
You might even vow not to date again for a LONG
TIME, because you just don't want to get hurt
again.
It can feel pretty safe to live inside the
little "bubble" you make for yourself, just
working on your career, spending time with
friends, doing things that make you happy.
What do you need a man for anyway? (You think.)
You put yourself and your love life in a
"holding pattern" because you don't want to let
another man in or get close.
You don't want to be vulnerable. What's the
point, if all that's going to happen is that
you'll end up feeling more of the same, bad
feelings you're trying to get over now - right?
Actually, no.
I don't agree.
Because if you're honest with yourself, you'll
realize that you don't want to shut yourself off
from what can be the opportunity for an amazing,
life-long experience.
That one great guy you're meant to be with
could be out there right now. Unless you create
the "space" for him in your life, you won't be
ready for love when it finds you.
Ok, you may feel pretty in-control and safe
right now, but are you LIVING? If you're not
taking a risk, are you risking never feeling the
LOVE and connection that could transform your life
someday?
Nod your head right now if you feel even a
GLIMMER of truth in what I'm saying.
And here's another common thing I hear from
women who aren't ready to date again.
"There's no good men out there for me anyway.
The ones I'm attracted to aren't attracted to me.
Or they're taken."
I can see how you may feel that way if you're
not sure how you're going to attract the RIGHT
guy, or the type of guy you're into.
Plus, your recent experience with men has been,
well, less than great.
Like when a guy comes on strong at first, then
suddenly tells you he's "not ready" for anything
serious, or isn't "into" monogamy or commitment.
No wonder you'd rather stick a twig in your eye
than date again anytime soon.
Yeah, I get it.
Alright, but what if I told you that I can help
you learn exactly how to identify and ATTRACT the
right guy, and give you an "edge" that you've
never had before in dating?
Would it change the way you think and feel
about men if you knew exactly how to get a man
close and connected to you and KEEP him wanting
you and ONLY you, without games, manipulation or
"tricks" of any kind whatsoever?
You CAN experience the kind of LOVE you've
always wanted in your life, regardless of what
kinds of bad experiences you've had before.
In my "Natural & Lasting Attraction" program,
I'll show you how to make a man realize you're a
"catch" within the first few MINUTES of a
conversation.
You'll attract quality men because they will
"sense" that you are the type of woman they're
looking to have something special with.
You'll learn exactly what kinds of words and
behavior magnetically draw a man to you, and what
repels a man from EVER wanting anything past the
"physical" with you, so you can avoid making those
mistakes and losing a guy after getting intimate
with him.
Here's the truth about attraction: It's not
about being a great beauty, or about seducing a
man into having feelings for you.
Actually, it's about something deeper and more
long-lasting. And the best part is, that once a
man feels THIS level of attraction for you, almost
nothing can keep him away from wanting to be with
you.
Do you know why men cheat and what it takes
for a man to want and need to stay faithful to you?
In my "Inside The Mind Of A Man" program I reveal
the secret to how men really feel about sex,
monogamy, and why a man may say he "loves" you but
still sleeps with another woman.
Oh, and I also show you what it is you should
always say to your man at the beginning of your
relationship so that things are set up right from
the start for an open and honest relationship with
trust, and no cheating.
