Making Him Feel Passion For You

do you long for the days your


man used to look at your lovingly?



Does it seem like the PASSION HAS GONE

out of your relationship, and you don't

quite understand why?



Your man says he loves you, and he says

he's committed to you, but you still feel

like something is missing.



And that your relationship may be headed

for trouble.



If so, take a look at this letter I wrote

about the reasons WHY so many women experience

this in their love life, and more importantly,

what YOU can do about your specific situation

right now:
If you have a man in your life right now, let


me ask you an honest question...



Are you happy with the current state of your

relationship?



Have you been experiencing the kind of love

and passion in your relationship that makes you

feel more confident and emotionally fulfilled?



Or...

Have the interactions with the man in your

life somehow turned "sour" to where even the

slightest look or misspoken word can drive a wedge

between you and lead to conflict?



If things are starting to "sour" in your

relationship, I HIGHLY RECOMMEND you read this

entire email.



And if you've become aware that it's not just

you who sees that the passion is missing, but

your man does too... then I'm going to have to

INSIST that you read this email and follow what's

in it. For your own good.



Now that we're clear on all that, let's get

down to it.



If your relationship is wearing you down and

making you feel weaker and less secure...



Instead of stronger and more beautiful, sexy

and confident...



Then I'd like to talk to you about what you can

do about it to quickly turn things around for the

better - for both you and for the man you're with.



Let me start by asking this question.



Take a minute, think about this question and

answer as honestly as you can.



Here goes...



What is it that takes a relationship with all

it's patterns and habits - and makes it suddenly

change for the better?



I'll give you a second to take that in

and consider what it is that has the power to

change a relationship between two people.



...



...



Ok, you probably came up with an idea or two

about how relationships can change.



But I'm willing to bet that nothing came to

mind that you know for sure is a quick and easy

way to change the things that are creating

distance and problems in your relationship.



Don't worry. That's where I'm going to help

you.



SYMPTOMS OF THE "PASSIONLESS RELATIONSHIP"



As a woman, there must be nothing worse than

doing everything you can think of to make things

work in your relationship...



Meanwhile all you're feeling inside is worn

down, unappreciated, and over-extended.



For lots of women who have men they live with

or are married to, the fact that you not only try

and carry your relationship isn't where it ends.



You're also doing everything to keep your life,

home, family, etc. together... while he doesn't

seem to be doing his part.



It's enough to drive you crazy.



The very last thing you can feel like doing

after a full day is giving MORE to your man to

help you reconnect.



How could it be that even though you're

trying harder to make for a great relationship

with the man in your life... that fun, free, easy

feeling of love and passion and connection seems

to drift farther and farther away from you?



For lots of women, what once started out as

an "easy" relationship where you and a man simply

connected - and enjoyed being together no matter

what - can unexpectedly turn into something a

lot more difficult and frustrating.



Tell me something...



Have you noticed that things with your man

fit with any of the following?



-He doesn't share the same kind of excitement

about being with you and spending quality time

together the way he used to



-He listens and responds to you less as time goes

on



-He has stopped touching you, acting sweet and

affectionate, and initiating sex



-He wants to spend more and more time "on his own"



Do any of these seem to be going on for you

with the man in your life?



If so, then I want you to stop fooling yourself

and get CLEAR about what's going on.



I hope you don't get mad at me for being the

one to tell you... but I'm going to for your own

good:



Your relationship is losing the PASSION that

brought it together in the first place.



And unless things change, it's likely that:



A) The ATTRACTION you share will DIE

The man you're with will likely STOP FEELING

those "special feelings" that brought you together

in the first place



And...



B) The cycle of less connection and less intimacy

leading to... more frustration... leading to less

connection and intimacy again... will continue to

spiral you and your relationship DOWNWARDS



And YOU will keep falling deeper and

deeper into that frustrated and unhappy place

inside yourself that you know isn't good for you

or your relationship because you don't feel

beautiful, loved, or sexy. And the more you feel

this way, the worse things are going to continue

to get.



If you can relate to what I'm talking about

here, then there's something you need to recognize

right now:



If you're spending a lot of time and energy on

keeping together or trying to improve the

relationship you're in, but it's ultimately only

digging you deeper into the frustrating situation

you're already in...



Then you first need to STOP WHAT YOU'RE DOING

RIGHT NOW.



Then the answer is NOT for you to do more of

the same.



Reason being, you're almost guaranteed to end

up with the exact same RESULTS or OUTCOME.



I'm going to be unusually direct and honest

here:



Without the essential element of that

free-flowing PASSION that you both don't have to

WORK to feel, your relationship is in a lot more

danger of ENDING than you might realize.



Tell me...



How many times have you heard from a friend

that the man in her life suddenly told her that

he wanted to break up, and his only real reason

or excuse was that he "just didn't feel it

anymore"?



Or that he "loved her, but he wasn't IN LOVE

with her"?



Meanwhile, your friend felt like the

relationship was going strong, even though there

were those little bumps in the road that every

relationship has.



Sound familiar?



This kind of thing might have even happened

to you in the past.



The point here is that too many women end up

in relationships where their man is acting

disconnected and withdrawn, and there's little

PASSION being shared anymore.



And everything the woman tries in an effort

to make a change for the better only ends up

making her feel more frustrated and disappointed

because the man doesn't seem to notice or care.



Or worse, he actually becomes ANGRY or

IRRITATED every time you try and bring up the

subject of your relationship, the reality of

what's not working, and how it's making you feel.



If you've ever been in this kind of situation,

or you're in one right now... then the reality is

that you have A CHOICE TO MAKE:



You can either:



A) FREAK OUT as you see all the signs that your

man isn't "feeling it" for you the way he used

to, and as the passion keeps fading from your

relationship (and push things further down the

negative spiral)



B) Not really make a choice to do anything but

stay "quiet" and hope things change for the

better, as you go down the road of uncertainty

and your man keeps drifting farther and farther

from you



C) Take a step back from your knee-jerk reaction

of fear, and do something to quickly turn things

around right now



Most women don't know what it is that can take

this unfortunately-common situation and turn it

around.



There are 2 immediate options you have, both of

which I've seen work for women and allowed them

to quickly turn their relationships around in no

time flat.



Even with the most withdrawn or disengaged men.

(I'm talking healthy men here who have fallen into

these negative relationship patterns with you. Not

unhealthy, damaged men - that's a longer story.)



I've seen women turn their relationships around

with either of these things WITHOUT having to

"do more work" in their relationship and take

on more of the burden of carrying the

relationship.



Doing MORE is not the answer when you're

already doing all you can and it's not working.



The answer is doing just a few simple things

the right way.



The best part is, once you finally know what

the right thing to do is, all it takes is a tiny

bit of effort and the results are many, many more

times what you could get struggling with all your

force.



It's like lifting a giant piece of furniture.



Try it by hand and it won't budge.



But when you have the right pulleys and levers

it goes "like butter."



YOUR TWO OPTIONS TO QUICKLY CREATE A POSITIVE

"SHIFT" IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP



I'm going to give you 2 options that I know

from my experience in helping women can quickly

allow you to do a kind of "reset" on your

relationship and shift out of some of the negative

dynamics that have been going on.



Using either of these options, I've literally

seen women:



-Go from feeling like they had to "nag" their

boyfriends at every turn just so he'd be a part

of their life and relationship... to suddenly

having him excited to give, share and open up



-Stop feeling like they were the only one GIVING

and start RECEIVING tons more love and affection

from their man



-Shift from having to ask 5 times before the trash

finally got taken out, to having their man asking

them what more he could do to help out and make

their lives great together



-Go from never hearing a kind word or unexpected

compliment, to receiving constant and continual

praise and appreciation for who they were



-Become consistently presented and surprised by

romantic gestures such as flowers, gifts, and

dates... all because their man was simply thinking

about them



Do any of these sound like something you'd like

to enjoy more of in your relationship?



And how would it be to have any or all of these

happen for you WITHOUT having to ASK FOR IT?



Then here are your 2 options:



Option #1) Reconnect The "Essential Element" That

Leads A Man To Feel & Act Passionately With You



Helen- for a fast shortcut to what I'm

talking about in this section, If you have a man in your life right now, let


me ask you an honest question...



Are you happy with the current state of your

relationship?



Have you been experiencing the kind of love

and passion in your relationship that makes you

feel more confident and emotionally fulfilled?



Or...

Have the interactions with the man in your

life somehow turned "sour" to where even the

slightest look or misspoken word can drive a wedge

between you and lead to conflict?



If things are starting to "sour" in your

relationship, I HIGHLY RECOMMEND you read this

entire email.



And if you've become aware that it's not just

you who sees that the passion is missing, but

your man does too... then I'm going to have to

INSIST that you read this email and follow what's

in it. For your own good.



Now that we're clear on all that, let's get

down to it.



If your relationship is wearing you down and

making you feel weaker and less secure...



Instead of stronger and more beautiful, sexy

and confident...



Then I'd like to talk to you about what you can

do about it to quickly turn things around for the

better - for both you and for the man you're with.



Let me start by asking this question.



Take a minute, think about this question and

answer as honestly as you can.



Here goes...



What is it that takes a relationship with all

it's patterns and habits - and makes it suddenly

change for the better?



I'll give you a second to take that in

and consider what it is that has the power to

change a relationship between two people.



...



...



Ok, you probably came up with an idea or two

about how relationships can change.



But I'm willing to bet that nothing came to

mind that you know for sure is a quick and easy

way to change the things that are creating

distance and problems in your relationship.



Don't worry. That's where I'm going to help

you.



SYMPTOMS OF THE "PASSIONLESS RELATIONSHIP"



As a woman, there must be nothing worse than

doing everything you can think of to make things

work in your relationship...



Meanwhile all you're feeling inside is worn

down, unappreciated, and over-extended.



For lots of women who have men they live with

or are married to, the fact that you not only try

and carry your relationship isn't where it ends.



You're also doing everything to keep your life,

home, family, etc. together... while he doesn't

seem to be doing his part.



It's enough to drive you crazy.



The very last thing you can feel like doing

after a full day is giving MORE to your man to

help you reconnect.



How could it be that even though you're

trying harder to make for a great relationship

with the man in your life... that fun, free, easy

feeling of love and passion and connection seems

to drift farther and farther away from you?



For lots of women, what once started out as

an "easy" relationship where you and a man simply

connected - and enjoyed being together no matter

what - can unexpectedly turn into something a

lot more difficult and frustrating.



Tell me something...



Have you noticed that things with your man

fit with any of the following?



-He doesn't share the same kind of excitement

about being with you and spending quality time

together the way he used to



-He listens and responds to you less as time goes

on



-He has stopped touching you, acting sweet and

affectionate, and initiating sex



-He wants to spend more and more time "on his own"



Do any of these seem to be going on for you

with the man in your life?



If so, then I want you to stop fooling yourself

and get CLEAR about what's going on.



I hope you don't get mad at me for being the

one to tell you... but I'm going to for your own

good:



Your relationship is losing the PASSION that

brought it together in the first place.



And unless things change, it's likely that:



A) The ATTRACTION you share will DIE

The man you're with will likely STOP FEELING

those "special feelings" that brought you together

in the first place



And...



B) The cycle of less connection and less intimacy

leading to... more frustration... leading to less

connection and intimacy again... will continue to

spiral you and your relationship DOWNWARDS



And YOU will keep falling deeper and

deeper into that frustrated and unhappy place

inside yourself that you know isn't good for you

or your relationship because you don't feel

beautiful, loved, or sexy. And the more you feel

this way, the worse things are going to continue

to get.



If you can relate to what I'm talking about

here, then there's something you need to recognize

right now:



If you're spending a lot of time and energy on

keeping together or trying to improve the

relationship you're in, but it's ultimately only

digging you deeper into the frustrating situation

you're already in...



Then you first need to STOP WHAT YOU'RE DOING

RIGHT NOW.



Then the answer is NOT for you to do more of

the same.



Reason being, you're almost guaranteed to end

up with the exact same RESULTS or OUTCOME.



I'm going to be unusually direct and honest

here:



Without the essential element of that

free-flowing PASSION that you both don't have to

WORK to feel, your relationship is in a lot more

danger of ENDING than you might realize.



Tell me...



How many times have you heard from a friend

that the man in her life suddenly told her that

he wanted to break up, and his only real reason

or excuse was that he "just didn't feel it

anymore"?



Or that he "loved her, but he wasn't IN LOVE

with her"?



Meanwhile, your friend felt like the

relationship was going strong, even though there

were those little bumps in the road that every

relationship has.



Sound familiar?



This kind of thing might have even happened

to you in the past.



The point here is that too many women end up

in relationships where their man is acting

disconnected and withdrawn, and there's little

PASSION being shared anymore.



And everything the woman tries in an effort

to make a change for the better only ends up

making her feel more frustrated and disappointed

because the man doesn't seem to notice or care.



Or worse, he actually becomes ANGRY or

IRRITATED every time you try and bring up the

subject of your relationship, the reality of

what's not working, and how it's making you feel.



If you've ever been in this kind of situation,

or you're in one right now... then the reality is

that you have A CHOICE TO MAKE:



You can either:



A) FREAK OUT as you see all the signs that your

man isn't "feeling it" for you the way he used

to, and as the passion keeps fading from your

relationship (and push things further down the

negative spiral)



B) Not really make a choice to do anything but

stay "quiet" and hope things change for the

better, as you go down the road of uncertainty

and your man keeps drifting farther and farther

from you



C) Take a step back from your knee-jerk reaction

of fear, and do something to quickly turn things

around right now



Most women don't know what it is that can take

this unfortunately-common situation and turn it

around.



There are 2 immediate options you have, both of

which I've seen work for women and allowed them

to quickly turn their relationships around in no

time flat.



Even with the most withdrawn or disengaged men.

(I'm talking healthy men here who have fallen into

these negative relationship patterns with you. Not

unhealthy, damaged men - that's a longer story.)



I've seen women turn their relationships around

with either of these things WITHOUT having to

"do more work" in their relationship and take

on more of the burden of carrying the

relationship.



Doing MORE is not the answer when you're

already doing all you can and it's not working.



The answer is doing just a few simple things

the right way.



The best part is, once you finally know what

the right thing to do is, all it takes is a tiny

bit of effort and the results are many, many more

times what you could get struggling with all your

force.



It's like lifting a giant piece of furniture.



Try it by hand and it won't budge.



But when you have the right pulleys and levers

it goes "like butter."



YOUR TWO OPTIONS TO QUICKLY CREATE A POSITIVE

"SHIFT" IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP



I'm going to give you 2 options that I know

from my experience in helping women can quickly

allow you to do a kind of "reset" on your

relationship and shift out of some of the negative

dynamics that have been going on.



Using either of these options, I've literally

seen women:



-Go from feeling like they had to "nag" their

boyfriends at every turn just so he'd be a part

of their life and relationship... to suddenly

having him excited to give, share and open up



-Stop feeling like they were the only one GIVING

and start RECEIVING tons more love and affection

from their man



-Shift from having to ask 5 times before the trash

finally got taken out, to having their man asking

them what more he could do to help out and make

their lives great together



-Go from never hearing a kind word or unexpected

compliment, to receiving constant and continual

praise and appreciation for who they were



-Become consistently presented and surprised by

romantic gestures such as flowers, gifts, and

dates... all because their man was simply thinking

about them



Do any of these sound like something you'd like

to enjoy more of in your relationship?



And how would it be to have any or all of these

happen for you WITHOUT having to ASK FOR IT?



Then here are your 2 options:



Option #1) Reconnect The "Essential Element" That

Leads A Man To Feel & Act Passionately With You



Helen- for a fast shortcut to what I'm

talking about in this section, read this

Of course, if you want to get right to


discovering the 6 Keys To Lasting Attraction that

I share in my "Natural & Lasting Attraction"

program... and to putting all the very best

secrets I've learned to work, both from seeing

what works that other women do in their

relationships - and from knowing what men love

and RESPOND TO -



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Stop trying to push and pull your way to a

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what is going to work.



It's supposed to be THE JOURNEY that you enjoy,

not the DESTINATION of a more secure and loving

relationship that might seem a bit far out of

reach right now.



Once you're sharing the kind of deep CONNECTION

and ATTRACTION that only comes from knowing what

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Of course, I told you I'd also share with you


the second option if you're looking for the right

way to quickly get things on track with a man and

draw him close to you for a great relationship.



Option #2) Break Through Your "Stalled"

Relationship And Discover How Commitment And

Growth Works FOR HIM



Lots of women have an easy time meeting a man

and starting off a new relationship.



But then things always seem to fizzle after

that early phase of lust and passion is over.



One of the scariest truths that too many women

shy away from is that for most men, especially

successful and attractive men with lots of

options, they don't want to be in a relationship

just for the sake of being in one.



In other words, lots of men who are "catches"

won't just want a loving, lasting and COMMITTED

relationship just because it could make their

life better.



In fact, lots of these men have never met a

woman who has shown them that a relationship

truly does make life richer and more worth living.



Lots of good men still haven't been able to

recognize in a woman the qualities that show them

that their life could actually be BETTER as a

result of being deeply in love and COMMITTED for

the LONG RUN.



Don't let what men either haven't found or

seen in other women deter you from having the

great relationship you know is possible when you

meet a man.



Discovering how men think about lasting and

long-term relationships is half the secret.



If you don't know what it is that makes a man

see a woman as someone who he could see himself

being with and staying with not just FOR NOW, but

far into the future... then odds are you'll make

the same mistake tons of other women make that

only make the man in their life MORE RESISTANT

to committing to lasting love.



One of the most common mistakes is talking to

a man about becoming more involved and committed

in your relationship as though it's the "right"

or "logical" thing to do.



Some women, when they sense that their

relationship isn't growing... will try and jump-

start things by DEMANDING that the man "get with

the program" and make a bigger commitment.



I can see the man WITHDRAWING right now.



The false belief women hold about why men

withdraw when this happens is that men are AFRAID

of COMMITMENT.



Nothing could be farther from the truth.



The truth is, men aren't afraid of commitment

when they feel like a woman UNDERSTANDS THEM and

knows how to be the kind of partner who makes

their life BETTER, not more confusing and complex.



In other words, men are only afraid of

commitment when they don't already sense that the

woman is right for them.



So when a woman can come into a man's life and

show him the signs of a great woman that all men

know and universally respond to... that supposed

fear of commitment and the future simply

disappears.



I'm sure you've known at least one man in your

life who was a sworn bachelor.



He'd talk about how he loved being single,

and about how relationships were nothing but

trouble.



But then it happened...



He met this one woman and suddenly EVERYTHING

CHANGED.



Suddenly love was real and important.



Suddenly he had a woman he truly cared about,

and who he didn't want to lose or let go.



Suddenly he was "hooked", and it was him who

was driving the relationship forward and wanting

more.



It is possible. Men can and do grow deeply

connected and committed in relationships.



But it takes getting them to recognize that

you're the right woman.



To know how the COMMITMENT PROCESS works for

a man, how to avoid all the common mistakes women

make that cause healthy men to fear and avoid a

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