Wednesday, May 26, 2010

To Get Him To Emotionally Commit

Quick tip if you're seeing a guy... but you're


not quite sure where your relationship stands.



What should you do?



Should you ask him how he's feeling?



Tell him it's time for a commitment?



Follow "The Rules" and lay down an ultimatum?



The truth is that thinking about where your

relationship is headed, and trying to figure that

out with a man, can be tough enough.



And this is made even harder when you're going

into Summer and you know that all kinds of

distractions and temptations are out there.



Here's something you have to remember...



Most men are NOT going around and meeting one

woman they like, and then quickly asking that

woman:



"Please, can we have an exclusive and committed

relationship so we can grow close and see where

things go in the safety of a supportive

partnership!?"



If you can find a man saying this, and meaning

it, please send me his name - I want to give him

his prize.



The reality is that men are not rushing into

commitments in any sense of the word.



Now, while it might sound obvious that men

aren't taking to the streets in demonstration for

their rights to committed, long-term, monogamous

relationships...



A lot of women haven't CONSCIOUSLY realized an

important fact.



Men can, and will want, a commitment with a

woman... but only when they feel and experience a

few very specific things with a woman that tell

them the time is finally right.



Men aren't desperate to commit. But they do

want to meet and connect with a woman who makes

them feel incredible on every level.



And, ironically, when a man does meet a woman

who does and says the things that trigger in him

the "I've got to spend the rest of my life with

this woman" feelings... a man can't help but end

up being the one to work for the relationship to

move forward after all.



This happens even with men who previously

swore they weren't looking for something serious.



So, let me ask you...



How many times have you had a man who seemed

to be "feeling it" with you quickly pull away

when the subject of "Where are things going?" and

a commitment finally came up?



If you've had this happen to you before...



And you didn't know what was going on with

your guy...



And you didn't know what to do once you saw

that things were having problems moving towards a

real commitment...



It's time you knew that there is a PROCESS to

how a man becomes physically and emotionally

COMMITTED to a woman.



And it's time you understand this process, and

in doing so, make it easy and effortless for the

connection you have with a man to turn into a real

and lasting relationship when you're ready for it.



It's also time for you to get off the hamster

wheel and figure out what's going on with men

when it comes to commitment and relationships

once and for all.



That way you don't have to go through

situations like this again and waste your

precious time and energy.



If you're ready, I can show you.



Where To Go From Here...



Do you really want to start dating another

guy, think things are going great and fall into

place by themselves... only to have the same

problem pop up again?



If talking to your man about your relationship

and "where things are going" causes a man to

withdraw...



Then 1 of 2 things are going on.



He's either...



A) Being immature and experiencing fear when it

comes to a real and committed relationship with

you



Or...



B) He's withdrawing because he's reacting to

something YOU are doing



Now, whatever the reason may be, if the man in

your life is scared of or avoiding a real

commitment with you... the reality is that what's

super important if you want things to work out is

not WHY he's acting this way.



The most important thing is HOW to "shift"

things so that he not only opens up and stops

withdrawing, but the tables turn and he

recognizes that he's fortunate to be with you.



Now, if you want to know the fail-safe way to

move from a "casual" or uncertain situation with

a man into a DEEPLY COMMITTED long-term

relationship...



Then I have everything you need to know.



I've created 2 programs that have helped

literally thousands of women to know exactly WHAT

TO DO in order to make moving into a more deeply

committed and lasting relationship EASY.



My "Inside The Mind Of A Man" answers ALL the

questions you've always had about men, love, sex,

dating and relationships but never got the real

straight answers.



This program will get rid of the confusion

that comes from wondering what your guy is

thinking, what his reactions and behaviors mean,

what stage he's at in his life... and what to do

about all of this and more.



I've had women write me about this program and

tell me that they wish they had this program 20

years ago. It would have saved them a lifetime

worth of wondering and frustration, and given

them the answers they needed with the man in

their life.



Now, it's one thing to know and understand a

man.



It's another, as I said, to know exactly what

to do and say that naturally and effortlessly

brings your relationship together and makes your

man crave an exclusive and committed relationship

with you.



Fortunately, I can help you there, too.



My "From Casual To Committed" program walks

you through what the COMMITMENT PROCESS actually

looks like for a man.



It also shows you where and why your man will

resist or pull away in the process...



And show you how to avoid all this unnecessary

withdrawal and uncertainty by having your man

100% in sync with you and excited as he keeps

growing closer and more devoted to you.



It's hard to get somewhere you want to go if

you've never been, and you don't have directions.



But it's EASY when you have a detailed MAP to

show you the way. My "From Casual To Committed"

program is an actual map and guide for moving

deeper and deeper into the different LEVELS of

COMMITMENT with a man.



Exclusivity is just one important commitment

along the way that couples need and want.



Oh, and here's something interesting...



Did you know that a man becoming committed to

a woman isn't just one single decision?



It's actually a specific set of steps and

experiences that a man has with a woman that

leads him to a place where he ends up becoming

committed and devoted without even thinking about

it, or resisting it.



The thing is... if you don't know what these

steps are, and you don't know how they work, it's

very unlikely that you'll get it right just going

on what feels right to you as a woman.

(Especially if you haven't been able to get it

right before).



Do you know why so many men unconsciously FEAR

and AVOID relationships, without really realizing

it?



And do you know how to quickly bypass this

unconscious fear that too many men don't know

they have?



If you're ready to stop trying to PUSH your

relationships uphill, and you'd like to finally

experience what it's like to have that effortless

love and "flow" with the man in your life...



Then it's time you discovered exactly what it

is that makes your man ready and excited to

COMMIT HIMSELF to you fully.



If you're ready to know the few simple steps

and the "rhythm" that makes a man desperate for a

more deeply committed and lasting relationship

with you, then I strongly recommend you try out

my "From Casual To Committed" program.



A Very Special Limited Offer

Ok, since it's an interesting time of the year

as we're going into Summer...



And since I'm getting tons of questions from

women who are just "uncertain" enough about their

relationships to want to stop wondering and make

their relationship ROCK SOLID and work... or move

on...



I'm doing something special.



For a short time I'm going to let you try 2 of

my most popular life and relationship transforming

programs right now at a significant discount.



I've told you about my 2 programs:



-"Inside The Mind Of A Man"



And...



-"From Casual To Committed"



The rest of the year you can only buy these

programs on their own and pay full price to try

them.



But if you'd like to discover the things that

have already helped literally thousands of other

women in these 2 programs right now...



Then I'm going to let you try both of these

programs at a big one time discount.



I don't know when I'll do this again, and more

to the point I really want you to have the chance

to try these 2 programs and put them to work for

you.



I'm 100% confident that they are going to get

things on track and have you enjoying the kind of

connection, understanding and the kind of loving

relationship you want and deserve.



I'm so sure that these programs are going to

change the way you see things with men and bring

you the results and success you want in your love

life that I'll put myself out there for you first,

and here's how...



If you want to try BOTH of these programs at a

one time discount, I'll also let you try these

programs and use them without having to pay for a

full 30 days.



Just so you can try them out and make sure

they're really for you. No risk. No gimmicks.



If you love them (and I know you will) just

keep them and you'll be billed in a few, small

easy payments.



It's really that simple and easy to get a new

lease on your love life.



Don't wait. This is a special limited offer

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now is the time.



Try my "Inside The Mind Of A Man" program and

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and pay a single cent.

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